It's a man's world...so what?

The legal field is still predominantly male. According to findings by Catalyst, in 2007, women made up 32.6% of all lawyers. And, of the nation's 200 largest law firms, women represent almost 16% of equity partners and only 8% of managing partners. For women of color, they represent only 1.7% of all partners.

So I thought that this post from Inc.com entitled, "How to Get Heard in a Meeting Full of Men," would provide some insight for young women graduating from college or law school who need to find a way to be heard in a male dominated profession, office or world.

However, I would never, in a million years, implore any of the methods outlined in the article. BUT, and this is the real subject of this post, I realize myself to be a different kind of gal. Here's why:

 

1. I've always been surrounded by mostly men in family and friendship situations.

2. I've never had a problem being heard.

3. I never take on the mannerisms of men in order to be heard.

4. I always wait until there is absolute silence and then I make my point, confidently and succinctly. Men are amazed by this and usually go on to ask for more.

5. I also have been told that I intimidate some men because of my silence. I never raise my voice. I won't yell to be heard or tap into the testosterone that I know lies within me to engage.

 

But I hear professional women struggle with this all the time. I'd like to know from other women what works for you and why or why not. Share the knowledge so young women will not sit in meetings raising their hands, asking for permission to speak. The thought of that makes me gag.

Comments

[Amy]

Your post is interesting and made me laugh. I was happy to read your number 3. I see women unconsciously imitating male styles of communication or leadership in an effort to get respect. I like it when women stay true to their own style and unique voice. While some say imitation is the highest form of flattery, I also think it can be a lack of believing in difference as a tool of power. I digress. Great blog.